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  • AcidLeaves [they/them, he/him]@hexbear.netOP
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    8 months ago

    Yea, I’ve been trying but it’s a little bit difficult because of the chicken egg situation

    I only have well off friends -> end up doing stuff that mostly well off people enjoy

    And to befriend non well off people I need to be interested in stuff that non well off people do and enjoy, but that’s also infinitely easier when I can hang out and fit in with non well off people

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      8 months ago

      And to befriend non well off people I need to be interested in stuff that non well off people do and enjoy, but that’s also infinitely easier when I can hang out and fit in with non well off people

      Can’t you hang out with fellow party members? When I was in a party we hung out fairly regularly after meetings and such.

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          8 months ago

          Maybe invite some of them to hang out in private? Maybe treat them to some of the bougie shit you enjoy? I didn’t meet many communists that were inherently against eating or drinking nice stuff, most just can’t really afford it.

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            8 months ago

            I’m not close enough to anybody to invite them to a thing outside of party events yet :(

            I’m still working on it though!

            Actually now that I think about it, I have a few times but those friendships all fizzled out due to them not committing to organizing regularly so we drifted