• ashinadash [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      wtf

      Do you actually not understand that kink like that is between two consenting adults, or are you just being obtuse? Genuinely. They are not even remotely the same thing.

      Also ngl your conflation of these two above the statement “the monkey brain is not ok” is all kinds of ridiculous, bordering only being describable as “cringe”.

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          Right, because you literally said, under a comment about sexually assaulting animals

          looks at puppy play community

          The monkey brain ain’t okay

          What does this mean if not to equate the two? Alternatively I can just accept at face value that you aren’t, contradicting what you said, but at the very least, saying “the monkey brain ain’t okay” in response to the concept of puppy play, regardless of context, is definitely kinkshaming. Judgemental.

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          How loose exactly? Please explain, because any conflation of these at all is extremely worrisome and the comment is kinkshaming and judgemental at best.

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              No it wasn't, but this might be (cw discussions of kink)

              They do not, the kink play involves adopting however many aspects that are doglike–leashes, headpats, tail plugs, appropriate toys, any number of other things–to flavour your kink play between two (or more) consenting adults, to inhabit a specific submissive space. It is domination & submission with bonus sauce, the goal being many potential things, like simply being able to forget about anything more complicated than being someone’s pet, safely, sanely and consensually. This cannot be equated to sexually assaulting an animal which cannot consent and intellectually is not on the same level as humans, at all. To equate them to any degree is still cringe.

              Also, if you consider this to be an inappropriate place to discuss kink, consider not kinkshaming, randomly, without any prompting.

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      That is one hell of a chasm to traverse to bring A to B. I’m not entirely sure you understand what puppy play really is at the end of the day as it’s not sexual in my personal experiences. Even if it was, there’s a pretty colossal difference between two consenting adults and one adult and an animal that cannot give consent.