• TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Dishwasher was a legit creep. Proved management inaction took almost a year to get rid of them.

    Jacked 5 ft 5 black guy.

    Would talk extremely close to female servers. One time parked someone in and kept asking them questions like where you live etc. Talked about his jail time openly. Would get angry and just yell in the dish pit. One time said “hey what’s that other car in your driveway” to a woman.

    The ex gang member who taught me to cook said he was the kind of guy who enjoyed the gay in jail. Institutionalized to a degree. Was a dish washing machine.

    Hit on my boyfriend and would look down his shirt, be like look good in them jeans etc. In same month would emotionally abuse him to tears.

    One time recall going up to him and saying someone was obviously not interested because she was new, visibly scared with him next to her when she was just trying to prep. People could hear him yell at me from the dining area, but after that he was different in a good way with me. Typical abuser workplace shit that thrived on inaction. Could have killed me if he wanted of course.

    Bizarre man. Forget why he was finally let go but everyone breathed a little easier…

    Until the woman with BPD started lol

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        2 months ago

        Ooo shit.

        We fortunately new had anyone overtly violent.

        Meth in the bathroom after we started using an agency to fill shifts shifts.

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          At the time I didn’t even think anything of it. It just clattered against the wall next to my head and I was a teenager and I just went back to work. In my 40s now and that guy and I would have serious words. Can’t believe how trivially I treated my own safety back then