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Men's Liberation@lemmy.ca · 2 years ago

I'm a trans man. I didn't realize how broken men are

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I'm a trans man. I didn't realize how broken men are

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Men's Liberation@lemmy.ca · 2 years ago

Before transitioning, I didn't receive short pat hugs or shake hands; I got deep, long hugs.

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I understand what you mean. I highly recommend the book “Language of Emotions” as an aide in identifying and respecting one’s emotions.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/8048177-the-language-of-emotions

And of course, talking out loud about your emotions with people you trust.

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The Will To Change: Men, Masculinity, And Love by bell hooks
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