• Tgo_up@lemm.ee
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    1 年前

    You think I’m wrong?

    I’m close to 40 and this has been the case since I was a teenager. I have women I’d consider friends but I don’t hang out with them like I do with guy friends.

    I think mostly it’s just that our interests doesn’t really align.

    • Shiggles@sh.itjust.works
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      1 年前

      It might’ve been true for your personal experiences, but it’s not universal, especially across different generations. It’s definitely more of an issue for exceptionally attractive people of any gender.

      • baines@lemmy.cafe
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        1 年前

        I genuinely feel for attractive people

        I’ve been moderately attractive once for a few years in my life and it was fucking awful, got grouped multiple times as a guy, can’t imagine being a hot woman for decades

        it does always feel like people want stuff from you

    • PugJesus@lemmy.worldOP
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      You think I’m wrong?

      Yes.

      I think mostly it’s just that our interests doesn’t really align.

      I think the decline of gender division in interests is a factor here.