• Cenotaph@mander.xyz
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    3 days ago

    I think how rough the punishment is really depends on how long you strand the child for

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      3 days ago

      half a day seems like peanuts though – though I guess it really does depend how the kid feels about it

      • its_prolly_fine@sh.itjust.works
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        3 days ago

        Dude no! Like a 15 minute time out is ok. But if they ask for water they should be given it. Locked away alone in a room without supervision for hours? No. That is not normal. At all.

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          2 days ago

          Like a 15 minute time out is ok.

          Locked in a room or locked out of the house? That is not okay, regardless of how long it is.

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            1 day ago

            I think they meant standing in the corner or sitting in a chair for the duration of the timeout

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              Tbh I think even such a thing is not that great for children. Certainly not traumatic or close to it, but just not very effective I would guess.

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                Standing in the corner doing nothing probably won’t work well, but sitting in a chair with a book and an expectation to talk about it after might. Giving them stim toys like fidget spinners could also work. The idea is you want them to calm down.