My good friend is really cool. He’s basically a super nerd scientist guy. Despite having a ton of knowledge, he’s humble af, I’ve known him for years before I knew how high his educational qualifications go.
My friend just married someone with a nice job and a bougie family. I’m happy for my friend, I couldn’t give a fuck if all her convos revolve around past holidays, resorts, and pricey drinks. My friend is happy and and he feels secure with this woman, and I’m glad that things are going well for him.
My friend and his wife keep trying to organise double dates. I guess it feels natural, to bring us into the wider family. But what happens is that the men and women separate and have their own conversations. My gf finds this woman boring af, bragging about all the countries she’s traveled and nice places she’s been isn’t really interesting. I wonder if posh people are so used to talking to service workers and underlings who are required by their job to please them, that they have no idea how fucking boring they are.
I always wonder how people end up in relationships with people who do problematic things. Like did they start dating as teenagers when they didn’t know any better?
Loneliness is a big factor, just having someone that will tolerate you, be sexually attracted to you, and you think you can fix their brain worms is enough.
From my experience.
This couple met in college. Idk what he sees in her
I personally had a terrible sense of people at 19. I’m probably lucky many of my friends and exes didn’t stick with me.