• absentbird@lemmy.world
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      6 hours ago

      It’s funny because some guys get mad about a woman using a vibrator, but would be thrilled to give LeBron an assist.

      They have no problem being cooperative in some settings, but in the bedroom feel like it’s a solo performance.

      It’s especially funny because sex, of all things, is basically defined by the cooperative nature; you aren’t there to win points, you’re just trying to have a good time.

      So in summary, it’s funny because it reverses expectations; the imaginary partner like cooperating in a competitive scenario, but gets competitive in a cooperative one.