• Una@europe.pub
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    I mean, when you think about it, if “default sexuality” exist, wouldn’t it make more sense for bisexuality (or any similar sexuality) be considered default rather than heterosexuality considering how humans are highly social animals. I personally don’t believe in such things as default sexuality, just pointing out something to argue about.

    • Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.comOP
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      Yeah I’d argue everyone is at least a lil bi. You’ll see it even in the most ridiculously heteronormative homophobic douchenozzles the second they see someone they both respect and admire who also is attractive.

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      Asexuality is the default

      Starting from nothing and adding things makes more sense than starting from everything and removing things

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      I’m pretty sure Billie Joe Armstrong (Green Day) said that once. He identifies as bi, wrote a song that mentions seeing both men and women, got asked about it, and basically said everyone’s a little bi. It was probably more nuanced than that but you get the idea.