My friend was a complete mess of a man. Really together as a woman. It’s a vast improvement looks wise, like tenfold.

However, she’s absolutely devastated by the UK Supreme Court’s dehumanising ruling retrospectively nullifying the protections trans people had in the equality act. She’s had some pretty awful treatment from some people you would have hoped would be kind and supportive.

It’s not an easy path at all and some people are going to be about as shitty as it’s possible to be if you choose it, but I need you to know that in any case, you matter and you’re a human being and a wonder. Don’t put yourself down just because some hater did. Don’t buy their lie. You’re so much more than that.

Reject hate, choose caring. Go out and be kind in the world. Find kind people and stick with them. Whatever happens you’re going to need caring friends, so take the lead and be caring and kind first.

But know this: I’m telling you again because it’s important. You matter. You are an awesome human being, even when you don’t feel like you are.

Then get the skirt to make you cuter :3

Kilts are a great way to start, I’ve seen tons of balding hairy old men with beer bellies in kilts and honestly looks great.

And don’t underestimate the dirty old man kink.

Everyone always thinks they’re ugly, we’re always our own worst critic.