• SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 days ago

    Ugh yeah this is the worst. It’s the actual normal person, where you are exposed and got it, but moved on because it wait wasn’t a huge deal.

    I always wonder if it’s that maybe I just need to find my people and haven’t done it yet.

    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      I’m more the opposite, I can hang with both because I can be the weirdo in normal circles and the one who’s not that into that scene type

      Like I can jam with a fandom but I need breaks from it and too long without more content leaves me less invested unless it’s something that has a strong emotional history for me.

      I do have to step away when a space gets too bpd though, but that’s because ptsd