• JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 days ago

    The difference is that I expect more from my community members to not perpetuate bigotry from within the community, to learn our histories, to not uphold or enforce stereotypes on each other.

    I don’t expect anything from you, because I don’t expect straight people to have experience with LGBT people with the majority of the noise being propaganda.

    But I do request that when asking community members a question that we are listened to, and to remember that our experiences and existence are not an argument or debate.

    • riquisimo@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      3 days ago

      Yeah, what I got hung up on was: “Too many of y’all are just straight people that have gay sex.”

      Which kinda feels contradictory to: “… not uphold or enforce stereotypes on each other.”

      It just feels like there’s a gay stereotype and you’re pushing those who aren’t a part of that stereotype to embrace it.

      But looking at your other posts I can also see it as “don’t be afraid to be your true self, you don’t need to hide and present yourself as straight.”

      I think that straight people who are allies should learn a bit more about lgbtq issues. Justice for all, perpetuated by all and whatnot.