this really sucks. she’s with someone else and says that maybe one day we can try again but not now. i’m in pieces trying to move on. i really thought things were going better than for a long time between us, but…
i am afraid that i’ll never find someone i connect with as deeply as her. she was my first and only love and i’m truly heartbroken. will it ever be ok again? does anyone know any good coping strategies or ways to deal with this?
It took me around 2 years I think to get over my last, and first, relationship. The first year was pain, the second was “trying to forget”. It’s good to have healed now, it wasn’t easy and it wasn’t quick, but now I no longer miss her. I just miss the feeling of love itself. My tip is to cut contact, don’t reopen the wound, just let it heal.