this really sucks. she’s with someone else and says that maybe one day we can try again but not now. i’m in pieces trying to move on. i really thought things were going better than for a long time between us, but…

i am afraid that i’ll never find someone i connect with as deeply as her. she was my first and only love and i’m truly heartbroken. will it ever be ok again? does anyone know any good coping strategies or ways to deal with this?

  • mrfugu [he/him, any]@hexbear.net
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    8 days ago

    It takes way way longer than it feels like it should, but you’ll get there eventually I promise.

    I’ve definitely felt “wow I’ll never find someone that perfect again” like 2 or 3 different times but it always ends when I realize how imperfect the relationship was. Usually while telling someone about it and getting a surprise concern face.