• SeeMarkFly@lemmy.ml
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    3 months ago

    I always find it interesting when the (your) comment gets more up-votes than the (my) post.

    • KuroXppi [they/them]@hexbear.net
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      3 months ago

      In this case it could be an in-group/out-group (instance) thing I’ve noticed. Sometimes people use home instance sometimes as a pre-vetting for ‘comment probably safe to upvote’ but scrutinise other instances’ comments a bit more cautiously. I can’t really say ‘don’t take it personally’ because as the person on the receiving end it can definitely feel bad

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        3 months ago

        Not to worry, between the trolls, bots, and my Ex I don’t take anything personally.