I would consider my old crush, Karl, to be a Bible Benny, just a bit. He was pretty religious and came from a religious Christian family and had a lot of internalized homophobia. Though he dated a dude and called men and women alike (jokingly) “hubby” or “wifey” and smacked their ass, he was still convinced he was straight or at least “turned straight”, as he would say. He was very ashamed to have been dating this dude, acted like he didn’t have feelings for him apparently, and acted like it never happened.
Even though I had feelings for him, I don’t think it ever would’ve happened because I was a boy back then and that’s how Karl saw me. Plus, his internalized feelings.
I have a simple rule for that: I don’t deal with cultists (or religious people if you prefer the pampering words) at all. Back when I was dating , this was amongst my first inquiries and KO-criteria.
(No problem with faith, just cults/religions).
Never heard of these terms before, did you make them up?
They sound made up but convey the meaning well enough. “Talk about your experience with Bible-thumping peers”
I have heard those terms in the past, albeit not too often
He DATED A DUDE (presumably) WHEN YOU WERE A DUDE (was a boy back then).
Feels like this was a you problem absent additional info.
