Everything in my life is either exactly the same or worse. The single thing I can point to as improving over the last decade is my personal maturity and political understanding. And that’s pretty much just a result of getting older, would’ve happened no matter what.

Anyway I’m not gonna go on a whole rant here, wondering if people feel the same, if maybe there’s something I’m missing/haven’t thought of

  • Nasalstrip [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    Honestly I kind of miss not having political understanding because now everyone seems like they’re at a 12 y/o level in my eyes and it’s so hard to not argue when they make the most absurd and nonsensical statements

    I need to rein in my anger issues and stop arguing w people but it’s hard lol.

    • purpleworm [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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      I used to have this issue, and it helped me a lot when I read Masses, Elites, and Rebels. Having spent a lot of time thinking about it because certain relationships in my life were rapidly deteriorating, I’m way more able to have constructive conversations now because I have a much stronger belief in the need to empathize with people and understand that even among academics it’s deeply questionable if they’re really treating it as a properly intellectual subject versus just behaving in ways that are rewarded, that functions as a sort of personal and social survival strategy for themselves, which is something that everyone, myself included, does.