sometimes I see someone looking nice and I wanna be like “hey! you look good in that outfit over there!” but then i have to stop myself so im not part of the problem
i just don’t interact because also I know a lot of people (me, my partner) don’t want to be perceived by others at all even if I weren’t being a big man about it
sometimes I see someone looking nice and I wanna be like “hey! you look good in that outfit over there!” but then i have to stop myself so im not part of the problem
“Hey cool jacket” is only catcalling if theyre not wearing a jacket
I think being specific and not complimenting someone based on their physical appearance goes a long way to not making it weird.
I complemented someone’s sashiko work on her pants and it wasn’t weird or uncomfortable.
i just don’t interact because also I know a lot of people (me, my partner) don’t want to be perceived by others at all even if I weren’t being a big man about it