My definition is relationships I’ve been in for a good while that I intend to stay in. Why the personal attacks though? Seems pretty rude for no reason.
Really? Maybe I’m just weird about intimacy or something but my shortest relationship that wasn’t a literal joke was like 3 years, most being 4. If people are frequently under that then I wonder why they’re diving into relationships they don’t have high confidence in… Do people count grindr hookups as relationship?.. I guess I’ve never been one for dating so…
No, I don’t count hookups as relationships, especially not long term relationships. But when they turn into significantly more than that, I do. I don’t need to defend my relationships though.
How old are you? Or is your definition of an “LTR” like 3 years?
My definition is relationships I’ve been in for a good while that I intend to stay in. Why the personal attacks though? Seems pretty rude for no reason.
i think most people would agree that 3 years is a long term relationship
Really? Maybe I’m just weird about intimacy or something but my shortest relationship that wasn’t a literal joke was like 3 years, most being 4. If people are frequently under that then I wonder why they’re diving into relationships they don’t have high confidence in… Do people count grindr hookups as relationship?.. I guess I’ve never been one for dating so…
No, I don’t count hookups as relationships, especially not long term relationships. But when they turn into significantly more than that, I do. I don’t need to defend my relationships though.
I was married for 3 years. Felt like a thousand tho. How is a grind hookup equivalent in any way to a 3y relationship?