• We have worked to emphasize harder that choking is not on the default consent list.
• We now have reports that prey who have opted into choking are going under-choked.
• …while still having occasional reports that prey who didn’t opt into choking sometimes have people reach for their throats.
• We’re trying to resolve this with things like cheatsheets, but the process is ongoing.

I would like to hear more from experienced kinksters, but I think this shows why negotiating who will do what in advance while everyone is fully dressed and sober is a big part of kink culture (and so is demonstrating skills and building trust in less risky scenarios). If you want to be ravaged in a specific way, your pursuers can give you that if the focus of the day is on you, not on you and dozens of other people with beautiful individual desires and boundaries in a chaotic environment. It also sounds like many of the predators are not very experienced.