The incident log for the Red Means No CNC party that’s popular in rat / postrat circles.

Highlights include ‘non-negotiated’ penetration and a woman being dropped on the floor so hard it gave her a concussion.

  • CinnasVerses@awful.systems
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    7
    ·
    edit-2
    14 hours ago

    I would be fascinated to hear from kinksters who have run similar events.

    They are keen on controlling contact and fluid-borne infections, but don’t talk about airborne infection control. Rationalists have a “COVID is over and RSV sounds like a Linux distro” party line which separates them from alienated nerds I know.

    Events I attend which combine alcohol and a risky physical activity have a one-drink maximum, or once you drink alcohol no more playing for you, not a subjective “Don’t drink too much.”

    • blakestacey@awful.systemsM
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      6
      ·
      9 hours ago

      I’ve never been to such an event, let alone tried to organize one, but I’ve socially known various people who’ve done them (kink but not CNC, to my knowledge) and a few sex workers who did kink professionally, and my guess is that alcohol just would not be allowed. You don’t do Jägerbombs before trying a climbing wall, and you don’t bring a substance that impairs judgment and worsens coordination to your sex party, for goodness’ sake.