I have posts and comments on Hexbear from 4 hrs ago that don’t show up

I have a comment on Lemmygrad from 4 hrs ago that doesn’t show up

A recent series of posts from ml to other instances have almost no interaction locally. When viewed remotely, they have higher vote counts (no more comments to compare).

I haven’t extensively looked at the new feed to see if posts are outright missing, but I see the same general pattern spot checking posts that do appear: vote totals much lower than elsewhere, missing comments

I don’t see issues reported on https://phiresky.github.io/lemmy-federation-state/site

Guess what? I’m breaking my general rule about using one account per thread again because your comment didn’t federate to ml! Anyways, yeah, to quote myself griping previously:
On Lemmy I don’t really care if the federation works but on Mastodon&co I live in constant fear that I’m replying with the same comment as a 100 other accounts (ok more like 10, the fediverse isn’t that big) because the replies never sync correctly.