• maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            8 hours ago

            butbutbut they also have to like me back which is a problem…

            and also how do i know they like me? like - what if they r just writing like this to everyone? what if - what if they just talk like this to everyone…

            what if what if what if they only said a thing to be nice - (i mean okay some of that stuff was like - very umm… out there but still!!! maybe i just looked so insanely friend-less that like - thats a thing which kicked in… okay no im not doing that poorly on friends but- okay no i am - but they dont know---- so like - u see?)

            this is hard… u never know.

            • SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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              5 hours ago

              Well usually if people like spending time with you or like being around you that’s a good sign.

              It’s ok to tell someone you’re attracted to them, flirt with them, or ask them out! You aren’t being creepy until they say no. Once they say no, if you still keep pursuing them, that would be bad, but just asking is fine.

              • maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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                3 hours ago

                butbutbut asking or saying is such a leap…

                it feels weird to say im attracted to u… that feels like im asserting myself kinda… and… i dont like taking up space… so - feels wrong ~

                definitely dont wanna be weird- but also won’t do creepy stuffs soo- im good there.

                dont even really know what asking out means… im guessing its asking for a date but a date feels like - just a weird extension of what a friendly meetup is with some extra qualifier making it a fancy thing.

                i went to see sonic 2 with a friend i like, but it wasnt a date (even tho he is a super cutie)… well now im just yapping.

                thank u for ur replies! even if it seems like i rejected everything, i havent. i will remember and - find out how things work.