• maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 天前

    butbutbut asking or saying is such a leap…

    it feels weird to say im attracted to u… that feels like im asserting myself kinda… and… i dont like taking up space… so - feels wrong ~

    definitely dont wanna be weird- but also won’t do creepy stuffs soo- im good there.

    dont even really know what asking out means… im guessing its asking for a date but a date feels like - just a weird extension of what a friendly meetup is with some extra qualifier making it a fancy thing.

    i went to see sonic 2 with a friend i like, but it wasnt a date (even tho he is a super cutie)… well now im just yapping.

    thank u for ur replies! even if it seems like i rejected everything, i havent. i will remember and - find out how things work.

    • SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      4 天前

      Basically it’s a date when the people doing the activity are pursuing each other romantically. So it’s basically a date if you both (or more, sometimes) agree it is.

      Awfully fuzzy, I know.