• maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    5 days ago

    imean - i knowwwww that thisvisnt meant literally

    but like - what im saying is kinda… i think it would feel even spicier if there were some consent talk even in the clip… cuz this way it feels too harsh and-… not cutie. how is a too ever gonna have fun if they arent sure their bottom feels safe?

    i would like - i would be just as scared as they are… ;(

    EDIT: yeye i knowwwww its a tiktok thing, its meant to be instant horny… sigh

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        4 days ago

        imean i knowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww…

        like - im not here cuz im like “um actually this hornypost should have been softer” but more like “i think that would have made peeps lookin at it happier” kinda thing…

        like- im-… i dont even want the spicy, i want the soft before, the asking, the genuine care, the… idunno im proooobably overromantisizing this but- u know?

        the - the part where the one gets the other to say a thing they might never have articulated, the light play in that, the - the way peeps handle things when they dunno if their partner/s should hear about a certain thing. the “strawberry cake or cheesecake?”, the" talk or shily be talked into", the looking and not knowing - THAT. yes, that.

        that is what im here for.

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          4 days ago

          That is… Not the norm, i’m afraid.

          I get what you mean though. Don’t get me wrong, I also like the OP and stuff like it, but I can see the appeal of seeing the softer side, too. But I think you’ll find a lot of people enjoy a rougher/darker fantasy even if it wouldn’t be fun if it were real.