Agreed. A sub that… basically doesn’t communicate, at all?
Honestly, infuriating, genuinely not enjoyable, at least to me personally.
There may be a few people who want to fuck an actual ‘not a person’ slave… not me.
But also… you can actually punish that.
Denial.
If you … require… communication… do not reward the lack of it.
If you just let them get away with their poor behavior… well you’re not topping/domming very well, now are you?
At that point you’re basically a service top, who is also expected to read minds.
There are different … preferences and styles here, people define these terms somewhat differently… not trying to broadly knock any of them, but… yeah you’re not really in control, if you’re the one doing all the physical and mental work, now are you? That’s at least how I see it.
Actually require them to answer questions with more complex answers than ‘yes/no’, otherwise, literally sit there and twiddle your thumbs.
deleted by creator
Tie them up in front of a computer until they’ve written a 3 page essay giving constructive feedback about their experience thus far.
Bonus points if a shock collar is around their leg setting off whenever they make a typo.
deleted by creator
I would have to use my safeword.
Agreed. A sub that… basically doesn’t communicate, at all?
Honestly, infuriating, genuinely not enjoyable, at least to me personally.
There may be a few people who want to fuck an actual ‘not a person’ slave… not me.
But also… you can actually punish that.
Denial.
If you … require… communication… do not reward the lack of it.
If you just let them get away with their poor behavior… well you’re not topping/domming very well, now are you?
At that point you’re basically a service top, who is also expected to read minds.
There are different … preferences and styles here, people define these terms somewhat differently… not trying to broadly knock any of them, but… yeah you’re not really in control, if you’re the one doing all the physical and mental work, now are you? That’s at least how I see it.
Actually require them to answer questions with more complex answers than ‘yes/no’, otherwise, literally sit there and twiddle your thumbs.
I feel this sooooo hard
I need all the information on how what I am doing is being received, thank you
Thankfully my partner/sub is pretty good at it
also part of it is I’m pretty sure I am a service dom/(and top? idk) and I enjoy maximizing and optimizing my partner’s pleasure…deleted by creator