• SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    17 days ago

    I presume it goes: hornypost > flirtatious comment exchange > DM > train ride

    Also, I don’t think it’s meant to be taken seriously.

    Although if you (generic persons, not specifically targeted at the person i’m replying to) see me hornyposting and somehow live within visiting distance, feel free to hmu. I’m in an open relationship and generally down to try new things 😝

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        17 days ago

        Well obviously 😅

        For one - it’s a meme and not meant to be serious.

        But also the point is that assuming that someone does or doesn’t want something like this is flawed. Which is why you don’t assume, you ask. You express a little bit of interest and see if the other person engages/escalates.

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          17 days ago

          Agreed, communication and consent are way up there at the top. I don’t think we disagree. I just understand human behavior to not adhere any such norms. People gonna be weird and rapey, you know