Hey Lemmy!

I’m a dad to a two year old boy. He’s very energetic and needs quite a bit of supervision. Other than that I couldn’t wish for a better son. I’d like to preface my actual question with saying I want to be a parent and I wouldn’t change that given the possibility.

The question is, does it get any easier? I have been stuck in a loop of wake up, take care of breakfast and other preparations, go to work, go back to parenting and maybe two hours of rest after the kid falls asleep. It feels like I don’t rest enough. I will however add that I’ve struggled with depression for the better part of a decade, I’m still pretty heavily medicated and in therapy. I’m much better than I was a few years ago, but the feeling of tiredness and lack of strength to be the best parent I can is at times getting the better of me.

I’m fully aware I put myself in this situation and I’m not sure I’d be happier with no kids. I guess I’m just looking for other people’s stories of when they were in similar situations or simply some words of encouragement.

Thanks.

  • Cheery@lemmy.worldOP
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    24 hours ago

    Yeah, I just hope I can cope with different better, it’s mostly the rut I’m stuck in that’s doing me in.

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      7 hours ago

      One thing you can take comfort in then is that nothing ever really stays still and whatever you are used to will change before you really realise it.

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      24 hours ago

      There will be some different you can cope with better, and some maybe not. Just keep doing your best and showing as much love as you can, to both your kid and yourself.