• HerbGrower@slrpnk.net
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    14 hours ago

    Nice privilege

    Oh yeah, so privileged to have grown up unable to afford to learn to drive a car

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      Yes, it is a privilege. I grew up in a rural area (about 60 miles away from the nearest city) with no access to public transportation or services. It would take FOUR HOURS to walk to my nearest friend’s house. I also grew up dirt poor and couldn’t afford driving school. So, I had to convince friends to show me how to drive, or get friends’ parent to show me, and eventually during my senior year, I convinced one of my teachers to let me take the behind the wheel test in his car. All of this because without a license where I grew up, you’re never going ANYWHERE. No job, no friends, no mobility to get out of a shitty rural town. So yes, to not have had to do all of that, that is indeed privilege

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        Friends with cars, teachers that let you fucking borrow their car?! Yeah, didn’t have any of those options. Even if I did, didn’t have the money to buy one or get insured.

        The test its self is also pretty difficult here, you are not passing it on a couple hours driving a friends car as practice.

        I didn’t have that. If something was going on 50 miles away, I didn’t go.

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          Friends with cars, yes. And teachers who pitied me, yes. But it certainly want a couple of hours. We’re talking about years of sneaking out in the middle of the night and driving friend’s cars on dirt roads. I didn’t own a vehicle for another decade after that.

          I don’t know about where you grew up, but what I grew up, even if you crossed that 60 mile trek to the nearest city, you’d still need a car to get to most places, because it’s fuckoff big and not well connected

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      13 hours ago

      Not owning a car in a suburb of Bumfuckville, USA is a much bigger disadvantage than not owning a car in NYC, Tokyo, or Hanoi.