The Picard Maneuver@startrek.website to Microblog Memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2年前You had to hold it up to a candle.startrek.websiteimagemessage-square389fedilinkarrow-up11.61K
arrow-up11.61KimageYou had to hold it up to a candle.startrek.websiteThe Picard Maneuver@startrek.website to Microblog Memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2年前message-square389fedilink
minus-squarepete_the_cat@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·2年前She has helped me out with stuff (school wise, life wise, financially, etc…) more times than I can count so I seem and feel like an ungrateful asshole if I just flat out say that.
minus-squarerichieadler@lemmy.myserv.onelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·2年前If you feel you owe her, don’t complain. If you need the feel to complain, do something about it. You can’t have it both ways.
minus-squarepete_the_cat@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·2年前I do say something about it, but help her regardless. You can be annoyed about something but still help regardless of that fact.
She has helped me out with stuff (school wise, life wise, financially, etc…) more times than I can count so I seem and feel like an ungrateful asshole if I just flat out say that.
If you feel you owe her, don’t complain.
If you need the feel to complain, do something about it.
You can’t have it both ways.
I do say something about it, but help her regardless. You can be annoyed about something but still help regardless of that fact.
Complain to her only, then.