trans musician from midwest US (unfortunately)

https://etherphon.bandcamp.com/
https://soundcloud.com/etherphon

I’m just here to read and learn and enjoy other folks thoughts, experiences and things they share and enjoy
I’ve recently learned, later in life, that i am not straight, have some patience if i have old views
If I was a jerk to you before, I truly am sorry, I am working on being better
names used elsewhere: etherdesign, vrave:lumen, majorbbs:zorlac/discord

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  • Other people have given much better advice, I am recently out as well but I just want to chime in and say that you’re not alone there and I have felt this way as I have gone through my own journey, I think this feeling may grow with the amount of time it takes to make your realization, you said it was 15 years that is quite a long time living as a straight person or asexual person. There is a book I found at the library which might be of interest to you it’s called Finally Out: Letting go of Living Straight, and it’s written by a doctor who didn’t realize they were gay until later in life (40s) and it goes through a lot of these doubts, it’s not about being trans in particular but the advice is still very applicable for all LGBTQIA+ peoples I think. Love and luck