• Repple (she/her)
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    131 year ago

    This is a great way of explaining why I hate body positivity so much (I’m very glad body neutrality is becoming more of a thing). I’m so tired of people telling me to love the broken shell I inhabit, or telling me that it’s beautiful. Fuck that.

    • @beSyl@slrpnk.net
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      31 year ago

      That is interesting. I have a friend with body dismorphia. I think there are different kinds of body dismorphia, and in his case, I trully do not think it represents reality. He is muscular, gym kind of physique, but he hates a certain part of it. I love the part that he hates, and I express it often. I wonder if I am doing the wrong thing? Should I be doing something else?

        • @beSyl@slrpnk.net
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          21 year ago

          Oh, sure, I agree with that, 100%. But when he tells me “I hate my X, look at them, so bad”, it feels wrong to just say “Oh, you should love yourself, not your body”.

          • Johanno
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            41 year ago

            Well don’t say it like that. Maybe ask him if it changes who he is.