• @aidan@lemmy.world
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    45 months ago

    Okay, but they did. I see how it sounds sexist, but how is it actually sexist? Dainty women do exist, and are on average, more dainty than dainty men.

      • @aidan@lemmy.world
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        15 months ago

        Well, using the stereotype is to reinforce their point. It’s a argumentative tactic. Like if someone said “eating greasy McDonald’s or whatever”, they could have just said “eating unhealthy food” but using specific imagery that plays into stereotypes gives a more emotional reaction.

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            15 months ago

            Maybe, I’m not sure where I fall on that. I view it basically the same as like the “fat American” stereotype- so is that xenophobic? Actually I would say that is worse, because being dainty isn’t necessarily a negative trait to many people.

            • @postmateDumbass@lemmy.world
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              15 months ago

              Hmm trying to shore up a losing argument with a flanking maneuver, using the same trite tactic, to nations instead of gender.

              Going after redheads next?

              • @aidan@lemmy.world
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                15 months ago

                It was an analogy? I think you misunderstood what I was saying. I wasn’t saying its not xenophobic, I was asking if you thought it was, and saying if you think it is then I agree it is consistent for you to then say that OP’s statement was sexist. Not every discussion is an argument, don’t be so defensive.