I left the country on suprise work orders 2 weeks in and smothered the connection I had with my friend turned partner in the crib.

Took three months of further anguish and very limited contact to rip the bandaid off.

I have learned nothing from this experience and am about to rebound.

What’s up with youse?

  • SoylentSnake [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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    2 months ago

    if it was genuinely bad then a (bittersweet) congrats. nuffin wrong with a little rebound though it’s never really worked for me personally (errbody different). what were the core issues? (don’t have to answer if u don’t feel like it)

    • Beetle_O_Rourke@hexbear.netOP
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      2 months ago

      Besides distance friction, I had options in a lot of ways that she didn’t. Was never all that communicative over text, which became a critical issue when I flew out. Was also pretty racist against South Asians.