He isn’t even homeless. He lives in an RV or something in his girlfriend’s mom’s driveway and does nothing but smoke fetty and suck all the air out of this community, making it harder for people like me who actually fucking need money. And he sends his girlfriend out to collect recycling and panhandle all night, alone. He’s an absolute piece of shit to her. He is an absolute piece of shit. Stop sending him money.

It makes me so fucking angry how I have to beg and plead to get sent anything, while he’s apparently getting sent hundreds of dollars. I remember once one of his posts was even pinned for a while. What the fuck?

P.S. Technically BaileyDee is his girlfriend’s account, but of course he doesn’t let her use it. You can tell it’s him posting.

  • infuziSporg [e/em/eir]@hexbear.netEnglish
    9·
    2 days ago

    I’ve always emphasized the mutual in mutual aid. People who post across our forums, I recognize them as not just charity cases but one of our number. Even someone like Mahmoud has done an AMA and come back to post. So in my book you don’t have much to worry about.

    Also I would be careful of leveling the accusation of “sucking the air out of the community”. You’ve been on the other side of that. I’ve noticed suspicious patterns in the accused account, which is usually a need that can be met with $0.25 a day, and little if any posting otherwise (see previous paragraph). So consider it not something that would pull the resources of a contributor like me.

    BTW I still owe you a square Chinese takeout meal (which I have no hangups around because I’m employed again), PM me when you particularly need it.

    • allthetimesivedied [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netOPEnglish
      5·
      2 days ago

      I’ve always emphasized the *mutual* in mutual aid. People who post across our forums, I recognize them as not just charity cases but one of our number. Even someone like Mahmoud has done an AMA and come back to post. So in my book you don’t have much to worry about.

      I feel shitty for how as of late I’ve posted little else but mutual aid requests. Life has been…blah.