• Flickerby@lemmy.zip
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    22 hours ago

    Specifically, no one is comparing them except you. It’s okay for two groups of people to have shitty experiences at once. It’s not a competition or a fight, I don’t understand why people keep trying to insist on making it a “one vs the other” thing.

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      22 hours ago

      Really? Nobody compares them? Maybe not here, but… Seriously? Is this your first day on the internet?

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        22 hours ago

        I can only speak for myself. If you’re trying to lay the entirety of the Internet’s behavior on a specific person or group of people then that’s a pretty shitty personal take that you can take personal responsibility for.

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          22 hours ago

          Specifically, no one is comparing them except you.

          You just said this though. How is this just speaking for yourself?

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            Would you like me to amend it to “No in this immediate conversation is comparing the two”? I figured you got that considering you said

            Maybe not here

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              Why are you getting so defensive about me pointing out the behavior of other people on the internet? Kind of a weird reaction.

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                As a third party, it’s probably because you’re being pedantic. No one in the conversation was originally comparing misogyny to misandry. So after the comment “it’s not even comparable” it’s obvious that the following comment of “no one’s comparing them” means this conversation. So really harping on the idea of anybody anywhere on the internet comparing these things is irrelevant.