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FunkyStuff [he/him]@hexbear.net to chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · 20 days ago

How could it all go so wrong?

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How could it all go so wrong?

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FunkyStuff [he/him]@hexbear.net to chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · 20 days ago
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  • Hestia [she/her, fae/faer]@hexbear.net
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    Hell yeah! That’s still a goal I need to achieve. Bottom dysphoria is the main issue for me in that regard, and a discouraging thing when I think about swimsuits. I overcame my aversion to shopping for bras, now I need to overcome my aversion to swimsuit shopping.

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      The biggest hurdle for me it was mostly wanting to deal with all my body hair, getting a course of full body laser has felt life changing when it comes to being out in public.

      • Hestia [she/her, fae/faer]@hexbear.net
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        Yeah, I need to resume electrolysis at some point, but I’m stressed enough about money as is without worrying about biweekly electrolysis copays.

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          Copays suck, you go through the trouble of getting insurance to cover and then you still have to pay.

          I found a esthetician/electrology school near me that does an hour of work for $20, which was a decent price point for me so I’ve been doing that all out of pocket so far.

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            I’ll have to reexplore my options, I don’t think laser was an option but that may have changed in the past year or so

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              I still have to finish electrolysis too, but at this point it’s mostly for white hairs and a more manageable because the laser already knocked out most of the dark ones- definitely found that order of operations to be pretty efficient

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          Get a big thick wetsuit so the bottom is like barbie and ken dolls with hairless neoprene skin

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            I wanna look hot in it though

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              Wetsuits are hot - form fitting and wet

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                The “form fitting” is an issue if you don’t like certain parts of your form…

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                  I think there is a real gap in the market for padded wetsuits, surprised that doesn’t exist

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