I asked out a friend of mine who I’ve been trying to ask out for a while now to grab coffee next week. They said yes but I don’t think they got the more than platonic intentions I had, they seem kind of oblivious to it (or are just hiding it well). I can’t flirt if my life depended on it, how can I convey my romantic intent without just… saying it outright?
idk if I’m giving enough context or detail here but feel free to ask if you need


I have been blindsided by romantic intent at the end of of what I didn’t realise was a date, and it’s not fun for either party if the feelings aren’t returned. You’re gonna have to say it outright.