Russia is conscripting parents

Are you referring to the standard conscription that doesn’t involve ambushing people in the streets and kidnapping them, with conscripts usually not going to war zones, unless they consent to do so in writing?

AND abducting children

As we have established, this is just fiction, and you have no basis for these claims.

So if we are comparing, they are worse not the same.

Ukraine has been trying to join the genocidal colonial empire of NATO to rob the rest of the world. Russia has not been doing this since at least more than a decade ago. That alone makes Russia (and all of the non-NATO lapdog states) better than Ukraine.