• Rose Thorne(She/Her)@lemmy.zip
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    27 天前

    On the one hand, going out could mean putting on a skirt, which means spinny.

    On the other hand, I could just do spinny in my living room, and once I’m done, return to Lounge Mode™ of loose sleep shirt and thong.

    Fuck going out.

    • hazel@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      27 天前

      Sometimes I go out because I get carried away, dress and do my makeup way too nicely, and I don’t want to waste it. But because I’m actually pretty tired, and it’s cold outside, I just suffer through a couple of unnecessary hours of being out, checking the time constantly, then go home and take it all off.

  • Jo Miran@lemmy.mlM
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    27 天前

    Me after having done the 30’s and 40’s “I’m old and over this” freakout while still in disbelief that I made it to my 50’s:

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    27 天前

    The thoughts of going out these days is more stressful and anxiety inducing. I’d rather sit in my own home, blasting my own music.

    • Psythik@lemmy.world
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      27 天前

      I’m 39; when does it kick in?

      But TBF, I did end up buying the sports car I couldn’t afford when I was young, a 350Z Roadster Touring in Daytona Blue (with a manual transmission, of course), so there’s that.

    • DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works
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      26 天前

      Yoooo…I feel seent.

      I felt this way more in my 20s. I didn’t figure out how to just relax and go with it until my 40s. I’m not sure if it was a mid-life crisis but I finally realized life is way too short to be a sad golden retriever in da club.

  • A_norny_mousse@feddit.org
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    27 天前

    It’s mostly about the music for me.

    If it’s right I’m spinning on the dance floor like I’m 30 years younger. After an hour, yeah that could be me.