I’ve been trying Lemmy for a little while and wasn’t sure how to feel about it.

Today, I wanted to start blocking the most high-censorship instances until I could find a fully zero-censorship instance and simply block all the ones with censorship. Filter bots, not people.

When I looked into it further, I found out there are no zero-censorship instances, because Lemmy relies on a broken “federation” system where each instance is supposed to be able to fetch posts from other instances, but it’s never been finished to reach a fully working state. Lemmy’s official docs say you can’t even do federation over Tor at all. This means it uses DNS, so it won’t actually allow Lemmy instances to fetch posts from each other freely, it just gets blocked instantly and easily, every time the authorities feel like blocking anything.

So you can only ever have the “average joe lemmy” and “average joe reddit” with everything approved by the authorities, and then “tor copies of lemmy” and “tor copies of reddit” where you have free speech but you can only reach other nerds.

People seem to think Lemmy is different because this weird censorship fetish is extremely popular and most of you are happy to see bans happen to certain people, not just bots, so a small Lemmy that censors certain people feels fundamentally different from a big reddit that censors more people. But it’s the exact same thing, it’s reddit.

When reddit was smaller, you could say basically anything you wanted there, they just wouldn’t let it reach the main audience. Then it got too big, and any tiny part of the audience you could reach would be too big, so they won’t let you talk at all.

Lemmy is now the small part of reddit where you can say whatever you want, separated from the main audience, until too much growth happens and you have to move again.

It’s not actually a solution to reddit. It’s not designed to be different, it’s designed to match the past today and then match reddit’s present tomorrow, while being part of a system that’s about the same in past, present, and future.

Last year, this year, and next year, you’re posting somewhere it won’t be seen by many people, and the system that charges people for ambulance rides is getting another year of ambulance ride revenue, facing no organized resistance. There’s no difference here.

Lemmy urgently needs federation between onion service instances and DNS addresses in order to actually do what most users seem to wish it would do: allow discussion outside what the corporate authorities allow, while outgrowing reddit & helping undo the damage social media has done to human communication.

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    The Fediverse existed for disgruntled reddit users.

    Didn’t ask.

    Huh? Community owners (I’m talking about the equivalent of subreddits here can pick the topic and focus of their communities).

    Don’t get what you’re trying to say here.

    And in terms of instances, an instance owner can absolutely choose the theme of their instance.

    Incorrect. Federation broken, which prevents this. How many times do I have to say this?

    There are many different instances with different vibes, aesthetics and political persuasions across the fediverse.

    Incorrect. All of them are in the same pro-censorship bubble so far, because Lemmy so far is designed with broken federation to promote that outcome. How many times are you going to make me explain the same shit again?

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      Incorrect. Federation broken, which prevents this. How many times do I have to say this?

      How does federation allegedly being broken mean that lemmy.blahaj can’t be an LGBTQ focused instance? How does federation allegedly being broken mean that slrpnk.net can’t be a solarpunk themed instance? Or that adult.swim isn’t themed around animation?

      Incorrect. All of them are in the same pro-censorship bubble so far, because Lemmy so far is designed with broken federation to promote that outcome. How many times are you going to make me explain the same shit again?

      Are you of the opinion that a “pro-censorship bubble” is somehow a single theme on its own and that there’s no difference between hexbear.net and maga.place?

      What would distinguish an instance from each other in your mind? Also, the federation system has no relevance here to the culture of the Fediverse. Even if the Fediverse was on TOR - it would not stop instances having federation standards.

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        How does federation allegedly being broken mean that lemmy.blahaj can’t be an LGBTQ focused instance?

        I don’t know. I would bet that’s not even true. Why do you ask?

        How does federation allegedly being broken mean that slrpnk.net can’t be a solarpunk themed instance?

        Again, I don’t know. Again, I would bet that’s not even true. Yet again, why do you ask?

        Are you of the opinion that a “pro-censorship bubble” is somehow a single theme on its own and that there’s no difference between hexbear.net and maga.place?

        Nope. I have no idea what hexbear.net or maga.place are, and overall don’t even understand what you’re asking.

        What would distinguish an instance from each other in your mind?

        Are you asking me for dictionary help again? Why can’t you just check “distinguish” in a dictionary? I never said or implied I use it differently from the dictionary “in my mind”

        Also, the federation system has no relevance here to the culture of the Fediverse. Even if the Fediverse was on TOR - it would not stop instances having federation standards.

        Didn’t ask, why waste time typing that stuff?

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          I don’t know. I would bet that’s not even true. Why do you ask?

          Bet what isn’t true? That lemmy.blahaj isn’t pro-LGBT?

          Again, I don’t know. Again, I would bet that’s not even true. Yet again, why do you ask?

          Bet what isn’t true? That slrpnk.net isn’t solarpunk-themed?

          Nope. I have no idea what hexbear.net or maga.place are, and overall don’t even understand what you’re asking.

          Hexbear is an overt Marxist instance. Maga.place is a pro-trump instance. Do you think they have the same culture? The same themes? It’s also of note that you’ve not heard of hexbear, as to me that makes you quite uninformed about the entire fediverse.

          Are you asking me for dictionary help again? Why can’t you just check “distinguish” in a dictionary? I never said or implied I use it differently from the dictionary “in my mind”

          I didn’t ask you for the definition of “distinguish”. I asked you what sets instances apart. What makes lemmy.world different from sh.itjust.works, according to you?

          Didn’t ask, why waste time typing that stuff?

          The point is your grievances here with federation wouldn’t change.

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            Bet what isn’t true? That lemmy.blahaj isn’t pro-LGBT?

            Whatever the premise was of the question I was replying to. I’m pretty sure lemmy.blahaj is pro-LGBT so if you were asking why they’re not, then maybe yes, “that lemmy.blahaj isn’t pro-LGBT” except I’m pretty sure that wasn’t what you asked.

            Bet what isn’t true? That slrpnk.net isn’t solarpunk-themed?

            Whatever the premise was of the question I was replying to, but I have no idea what slrpnk.net is, so it couldn’t have been that.

            Hexbear is an overt Marxist instance.

            Didn’t ask.

            Maga.place is a pro-trump instance.

            Did they pay you for advertising? I didn’t ask what they are.

            Do you think they have the same culture? The same themes?

            You tell me, you’re the one spamming about them, I never heard of them before this

            It’s also of note that you’ve not heard of hexbear, as to me that makes you quite uninformed about the entire fediverse.

            I didn’t ask, why waste time typing this?

            I didn’t ask you for the definition of “distinguish”.

            Good, because it almost seemed like you did.

            I asked you what sets instances apart.

            I assume you mean actual existing instances, so:

            • Cold signups
            • Level of “rules”
            • User base size
            • What other instances are federated/blocked

            What makes lemmy.world different from sh.itjust.works, according to you?

            I feel high certainty lemmy.world is run directly by glowies and some certainty sh.itjust.works isn’t (directly - like, the admins themselves)

            The point is your grievances here with federation wouldn’t change.

            Your inability to imagine the future seems like it’s more your problem than mine. I think you shouldn’t be bothering me with it.

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              Whatever the premise was of the question I was replying to. I’m pretty sure lemmy.blahaj is pro-LGBT so if you were asking why they’re not, then maybe yes, “that lemmy.blahaj isn’t pro-LGBT” except I’m pretty sure that wasn’t what you asked.

              I said: “And in terms of instances, an instance owner can absolutely choose the theme of their instance.”

              You replied: “Incorrect. Federation broken, which prevents this. How many times do I have to say this?”

              I asked: “How does federation allegedly being broken mean that lemmy.blahaj can’t be an LGBTQ focused instance? How does federation allegedly being broken mean that slrpnk.net can’t be a solarpunk themed instance? Or that adult.swim isn’t themed around animation?”

              You tell me, you’re the one spamming about them, I never heard of them before this

              The point is that different instances have different local cultures, rules, themes etc. That’s my point. Federation not working properly, as you claim, doesn’t change that.

              I assume you mean actual existing instances, so:

              Yes, I did.

              Okay then so there are different instances, active instances with different cultures, rulesets, themes.

              I feel high certainty lemmy.world is run directly by glowies and some certainty sh.itjust.works isn’t (directly - like, the admins themselves)

              Yeah, about that, got any evidence of lemmy.world being run by glowies?

              Your inability to imagine the future seems like it’s more your problem than mine. I think you shouldn’t be bothering me with it.

              Your future imagined here would require all current active and used instances to become completely anti-censorship in the way you want. Which they won’t.

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                I said: “And in terms of instances, an instance owner can absolutely choose the theme of their instance.”

                You replied: “Incorrect. Federation broken, which prevents this. How many times do I have to say this?”

                I asked: “How does federation allegedly being broken mean that lemmy.blahaj can’t be an LGBTQ focused instance? How does federation allegedly being broken mean that slrpnk.net can’t be a solarpunk themed instance? Or that adult.swim isn’t themed around animation?”

                I don’t remember the adult.swim part at the time but why are you recapping the discussion instead of continuing it?

                The point is that different instances have different local cultures, rules, themes etc. That’s my point.

                I don’t see how it’s a point, and it’s weird how you keep copying and pasting random quotes from me and then changing the subject without answering, while I copy and paste quotes from you and then my responses to them.

                Yeah, about that, got any evidence of lemmy.world being run by glowies?

                You keep asking this, like you can’t figure out the answer for yourself. It’s kind of amusing.

                Your future imagined here would require all current active and used instances to become completely anti-censorship in the way you want.

                No, my imagination is separate from yours. You imagining something and typing it for me to read doesn’t make it my imagined future.

                Which they won’t.

                Didn’t ask, don’t care.

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                  I don’t remember the adult.swim part at the time but why are you recapping the discussion instead of continuing it?

                  I added it in shortly afterwards. And I posted it because you seemed lost, and needed a recap as to what I was referring to. As usual. You did deny that instances could have their own themes.

                  I don’t see how it’s a point, and it’s weird how you keep copying and pasting random quotes from me and then changing the subject without answering, while I copy and paste quotes from you and then answer them.

                  You barely answer me ever. You get lost all of the time.

                  You keep asking this, like you can’t figure out the answer for yourself. It’s kind of amusing.

                  So no evidence. Of course. “Me when I make things up”.

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                    I added it in shortly afterwards.

                    The question was “why are you recapping the discussion instead of continuing it?”

                    And I posted it because you seemed lost, and needed a recap as to what I was referring to.

                    Incorrect. You’re just gaslighting and wasting time.

                    As usual.

                    Again, just gaslighting.

                    You did deny that instances could have their own themes.

                    I doubt it.

                    You barely answer me ever.

                    Incorrect. I have been trying to clear my notification inbox of your replies for hours, and no matter what, you always have more replies before I can finish replying to the last ones. It’s like you’re typing extremely fast or I’m typing extremely slow or something. I’m definitely answering every single thing, though.

                    You get lost all of the time.

                    Incorrect again. Repeating it doesn’t stop it from being gaslighting. In fact, it’s a pretty common trait of gaslighting attempts.

                    So no evidence.

                    Incorrect, unless you’re just observing that sometimes when you request evidence in bad faith, I might not have it on hand, or even necessarily feel like wasting time/energy providing it.

                    Of course. “Me when I make things up”.

                    Not sure what you were trying to type here.