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Lady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.com to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 3 days ago

We totally 100% support you as your true you

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We totally 100% support you as your true you

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Lady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.com to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 3 days ago
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  • Endymion_Mallorn@kbin.melroy.org
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    What you’re training them to do is disown and disinherit you both. At least, that’s the outcome I’d expect.

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      Oh, so you should let them hold abusing your sibling over your head for money? You shouldn’t stand up for the weak if the powerful might not reward you for it?

      You are why the world is on fire. Millions of boot fellating cowards like you.

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        I do have this person (Endymion) tagged as “Anti-immigrant” just as an PSA.

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          I feel like that comment is a good enough explanation of how thoroughly repulsive they are.

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            Fair enough, I just like to establish a pattern of bad behavior and Lemmy provides the tools for me to passively track assholes so I share when I can.

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              Love that, I do the same. If you want to spread a bit of cheer though, I also tag good behaviour or people that sound like they could use cheering up so I can remember to say something nice next time I see them.

              • LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zone
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                That’s a really nice thing to do! I hope your day is joyful

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            repulsive

            Thats the word I chose to tag them with!

            • cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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              I chose ‘boot licker(cultural)’

            • Leavingoldhabits@lemmy.world
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              Tagging sounds useful, do you know if its supported in voyager?

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                It is, go to the user profile and under the three dots, you should see “edit tag.”

                Please don’t tag me as technologically aware though, that would be dreadfully misleading.

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                  Thanks! Found it, had to enable user tags in settings aswell.

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                    I did warn you, lol

              • curbstickle@anarchist.nexus
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                Instead of going to the profile, long press on their name and it will associate with the comment you tag them on.

                This way you’ve got a direct comment reference for your tag.

                Edit: on voyager, yes.

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                  i was reading down this thread and wanted to know, does jerboa have tags too?

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                    Not as far as I know, no

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        it’s the boomer way

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      Imagine being a coward cause you might not get mommy and daddy’s money when they die

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        Also, imagine not loving your child enough to respect them as a full independent person.

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      If they’re willing to go that far, they’re not parents worth having. Good riddance.

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      If they were that much inclined then they shouldn’t have deadnamed/misgendered in the first place, even after being told so many times.

      If they were gonna disown for that, then they’d have done that either way anyways. Might as well get some nice improvement by removing that deadnaming and misgendering.

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      Shit, I’ve never seen this many downvotes on a Lemmy comment. Here, have another 😂

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        Thank you, I guess?

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          I’m just imagining the ‘married with children’ episode parodying ‘it’s a wonderful life’

          No particular reason.

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            RIP Sam Kinison.

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              Great episode. Dunno why you made me think of it.

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      Lmao, as if they will leave you anything. It’s not rare for parents to decide to blow all of their money on travel around the world and leave their kids with nothing. Their generation is proud of pushing their problems onto their kids and leaving nothing behind.

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      Hmm, if only there was a name for the type of situation that occurs between people where one side is tolerating abuse purely for monetary compensation. Also, potential - not guaranteed. They could be broke AF at the end because of the amazing healthcare system.

      But sure, tolerate the abuse, transphobia, misgendering, deadnaming, and what not - because they are your parents and you may get some coins for it. Yeah, no.

      If your (birth)parents/family/friends are that shit - you don’t need them. There’s a whole community that’ll welcome you as you

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        a whole community

        Not necessarily, but you’re still better off without dead toxic weight. Need to lose it more, even.

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      You say that like it’s a bad thing.

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      Oh no! Anyway…

    • Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world
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      “This whole hutch and all the china in it can be yours!”

      I have no idea what to do with the endless reams of stuff my parents will leave behind. I want to be disinherited.

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        My grandparents left behind an entire farm full of (sometimes literal) shit. Thankfully, you can pay companies to take the non-relevant crap away. Unfortunately, you’ll still have to sort it yourself.

      • Lemmyoutofhere@lemmy.ca
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        It’s called a rental dumpster.

        • ᴍᴜᴛɪʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴᴡᴀᴠᴇ @lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          Yep, filled a full flatbed sized one, had it hauled off, and filled another one 2/3 when my mom died.

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          And my brother will have to order one.

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      Bootlicker conservatives are we??

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        Fascists, dear. They’re called fascists. Conservatives are called liberals now.

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      Why should you fear maybe not getting money some time in the future over what years of misgendering does to your sibling?

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      Don’t threaten me with a good time.

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      Is it the outcome you’d expect, or the outcome you’d enact, if you were to find yourself on the receiving end of a much needed correction?

      • cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        I think we both know the answer here.

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      lmao, this is “Edward macaroni forks” level of downvotes.

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        no clue what that means, but yeah

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          That comment “Edward macaroni forks” is the most down voted comment in the history if imgur.com. You could probably find it with a simple web search.

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      Well it’s the outcome you’d deserve.

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