I am not sure this is the right place but my girlfriend recently broke up with me through whatsapp, she was not clear why beyond saying I was putting to much pressure on her to meet in person when she couldn’t and that I didn’t want to listen. I am not looking for advice about that, I accept her choice to break up and she asked me not to be in contact for a while, which I have/will also do.
I am posting here because it really really hurts, and I feel like my entire world is collapsing around me. I am trying to reach out to what IRL friends I have to meet up but I feel so isolated and alone and I am just not sure what to do. The entire situation made me feel so powerless and alienated. The person that I thought I knew would never have done it this way and would have tried to solve it with me. And she never gave any signs before she made the decision, it was clearly something she had in her mind for a while but she even told me she loved me 2 days before she broke up, she was planning stuff to do, making things for my mom,… it just sucks
Idk Ig i am just looking for comfort :)


Your world is collapsing emotionally. You can’t logic your way through emotional turmoil. Prepare to be a wreck, cry a lot, be miserable, eat some comfort food, and strap in. It’s closer to getting over a fever than it is a problem to solve.
You want the equivalent of hot honey ginger tea? Try Elliott Smith, it’s the closest thing you’ll get in this life.
Beautifully put.
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