those last three photos all I can see is a girl tbh, maybe the first photo has some androgynous qualities, but still totally see a girl (the hair really helps feminize the context)
I definitely think growing the hair out, and taking care of it & styling it in a feminine way will significantly help passing.
and yeah, I don’t know why trans communities struggle so much with honest feedback about passing; I’m not going to pretend my feedback or perspective is objective or how everyone will see you - I think we should all acknowledge that different people will see you different ways.
But maybe I’m just a brain-wormed 4tranner 🙃
Also, saying you’re valid in response to asking if you pass is so disturbing, like - non-passing people are valid too, it just has nothing to do with the context.
those last three photos all I can see is a girl tbh, maybe the first photo has some androgynous qualities, but still totally see a girl (the hair really helps feminize the context)
I definitely think growing the hair out, and taking care of it & styling it in a feminine way will significantly help passing.
and yeah, I don’t know why trans communities struggle so much with honest feedback about passing; I’m not going to pretend my feedback or perspective is objective or how everyone will see you - I think we should all acknowledge that different people will see you different ways.
But maybe I’m just a brain-wormed 4tranner 🙃
Also, saying you’re valid in response to asking if you pass is so disturbing, like - non-passing people are valid too, it just has nothing to do with the context.