From a pretty early age I decided I didn’t want to get married or have kids cuz both my parents seemed utterly miserable. For a long time I found it weird anyone wanted to do it at all, why would you want to be trapped with someone you hate who you get into screaming arguments all the time?
And it’s not just me, you see a lot of jokes online about people like playing that one scene from Marriage Story while playing old N64 games for nostalgia.
I think the experience of seeing our own parents be so miserable maybe soured a lot of us on starting families.
If I could unload all the burden (pregnancy) my partner and I would already have kids. I’m NEET from disabilities and would love to have a kid around to love/teach, but no uterus. My partner doesn’t want the body strain which is totally fine, but it’s gonna be several years before we will look adoption capable on paper. It sucks the most 'cause we’re living with parents currently and that’d be ideal for baby years but life doesn’t work out always.