This is it. It’s a bunch of angry people who think “Life is supposed to be hard! Deal with it.”
They think their life experiences are comparable to everyone else, which creates a logical fallacy:
Successful people don’t need help, but must obviously struggle just as much as I do.
I don’t have it easy, yet don’t need help, so people who ask for it are just being lazy.
They internalize the “life is hard” mantra and assume it’s normal to be playing life on hard mode, not realizing some people have the difficulty slider set to very easy while others are on nightmare.
This is it. It’s a bunch of angry people who think “Life is supposed to be hard! Deal with it.”
They think their life experiences are comparable to everyone else, which creates a logical fallacy:
Successful people don’t need help, but must obviously struggle just as much as I do.
I don’t have it easy, yet don’t need help, so people who ask for it are just being lazy.
They internalize the “life is hard” mantra and assume it’s normal to be playing life on hard mode, not realizing some people have the difficulty slider set to very easy while others are on nightmare.
You have just described my father perfectly. He is precisely like this.
“I suffer from depression. Or, as my father puts it, no I don’t.”
-Tig Notaro