Hello everyone!

I just recently came out to my partner as possibly (probably) trans. Everything has gone well and they and our closest friends are very supporting and caring. I couldnt really have had a better opening up I feel like.

Now, I feel like this has been a long time coming. I have never really felt comfortable with who I was ever since I was 12-13, I am 26 now. I have never had the space, surroundings or environment to explore or talk about this until now so I’ve had a lot of time to think and feel.

I am pretty sure I am trans but Im still not a hundred percent. I know she/her pronouns resonate well with me and I feel very good when wearing feminine clothes and showing a more feminine side that otherwise has been repressed. My partner helped me order some clothes the other day and I am very hyped to try those out.

Theres alot to think about and things I want to try and do, but I wanted to ask you all. What are your experiences, lessons or tips from your journeys? Is there anything I or maybe others in my situation could learn from?

Happy to hear anything and everything you want to share ❤️

  • isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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    5 days ago

    The best option I use is 2 pairs of elastic cotton panties that are a size or two small, and practice with those until you feel you have it down.

    That’s what I did. I never even owned a gaff. I got by with just wearing two pairs of cotton panties a size or two too small. Did that right up until SRS eliminated the need to tuck forever. Seriously. Tucking SUCKS. Eliminating it was one of the best things about getting SRS.