Hello everyone!

I just recently came out to my partner as possibly (probably) trans. Everything has gone well and they and our closest friends are very supporting and caring. I couldnt really have had a better opening up I feel like.

Now, I feel like this has been a long time coming. I have never really felt comfortable with who I was ever since I was 12-13, I am 26 now. I have never had the space, surroundings or environment to explore or talk about this until now so I’ve had a lot of time to think and feel.

I am pretty sure I am trans but Im still not a hundred percent. I know she/her pronouns resonate well with me and I feel very good when wearing feminine clothes and showing a more feminine side that otherwise has been repressed. My partner helped me order some clothes the other day and I am very hyped to try those out.

Theres alot to think about and things I want to try and do, but I wanted to ask you all. What are your experiences, lessons or tips from your journeys? Is there anything I or maybe others in my situation could learn from?

Happy to hear anything and everything you want to share ❤️

  • kluczyczka (she/her)@discuss.tchncs.de
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    5 days ago

    have you tried any flavor of fake boobs?

    i got a shirt i never wore. i tried it with some bad boob substitutes a time ago, and it was better. icame to the conclusion that i might like having actual boobs (that wouldn’t look as bad as those).

    today, abt 6 month in, i liked my upper body in a thight top for the first time. i had only inferred, that i might like having boobs. i do!

    just know that stuffing a bra will look a bit wonky, depending on what you use. your body will do better. ;)