Hello everyone!
I just recently came out to my partner as possibly (probably) trans. Everything has gone well and they and our closest friends are very supporting and caring. I couldnt really have had a better opening up I feel like.
Now, I feel like this has been a long time coming. I have never really felt comfortable with who I was ever since I was 12-13, I am 26 now. I have never had the space, surroundings or environment to explore or talk about this until now so I’ve had a lot of time to think and feel.
I am pretty sure I am trans but Im still not a hundred percent. I know she/her pronouns resonate well with me and I feel very good when wearing feminine clothes and showing a more feminine side that otherwise has been repressed. My partner helped me order some clothes the other day and I am very hyped to try those out.
Theres alot to think about and things I want to try and do, but I wanted to ask you all. What are your experiences, lessons or tips from your journeys? Is there anything I or maybe others in my situation could learn from?
Happy to hear anything and everything you want to share ❤️
Honestly voice training is one of if not the absolute hardest thing I’ve had to do so far but it makes a huge difference in how people perceive you.
Yeah it’s a blessing and a curse. It’s a curse in that there’s no easy fix. You can’t just sit back and let hormones change your voice, at least not for trans gals. And it is just so so much work. As a blessing though, it’s one of the few things that actually can be changed through sheer effort alone. There’s no willing away beard shadow, for instance. And if you are able to master a feminine voice, it does wonders for passing.