I always have “feminist brain/lesbian brain” conflicts when faced with “sex sells” crap targeted at straight men. On the one hand, cute girls in a state of undress! On the other hand, I don’t want to participate in objectifying other women…
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For me, idk even if they are in various stages of undress its still kind of meh.
I find a lot of “conventionally attractive” women presentation often to be kind of boring. Don’t even get me started on porn.
Idk, there just is something about a person when they are dressed how they want to and what they think looks good for them. I’m still going to be looking at boobs that are obviously “Hello!” about it. But idk one of the first times I got gay panic when I realized I was a lesbian was this punk looking women in the super market with a chain and short hair tossing a can casually into the air. I rushed to the freezer section where my wife found me and teased me to no end. (We are poly)
(Bonus story. Cause people probably going to be like “you have a wife? How did you not know you were a lesbian??” Me and my wife are trans kind of in the opposite direction. I’m genderfluid butch. One day after she found out about herself. I was complaining about the guys in stardew and how all these farming Sims have better girls then guys. She paused and looked at me and said “babe…I think you might be a lesbian.” So yeah my wife had to tell me I was gay. I reflected and I realized she was right. So that is a fun thing to tell people)
I always have “feminist brain/lesbian brain” conflicts when faced with “sex sells” crap targeted at straight men. On the one hand, cute girls in a state of undress! On the other hand, I don’t want to participate in objectifying other women…
ⓘ This user is suspected of being a bear. Please report any suspawcious behaviour.
For me, idk even if they are in various stages of undress its still kind of meh.
I find a lot of “conventionally attractive” women presentation often to be kind of boring. Don’t even get me started on porn.
Idk, there just is something about a person when they are dressed how they want to and what they think looks good for them. I’m still going to be looking at boobs that are obviously “Hello!” about it. But idk one of the first times I got gay panic when I realized I was a lesbian was this punk looking women in the super market with a chain and short hair tossing a can casually into the air. I rushed to the freezer section where my wife found me and teased me to no end. (We are poly)
Idk if any of this makes sense? I will say I’m also on the ace spectrum. But I just often feel like this. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Y2Y5KVtU810
(Bonus story. Cause people probably going to be like “you have a wife? How did you not know you were a lesbian??” Me and my wife are trans kind of in the opposite direction. I’m genderfluid butch. One day after she found out about herself. I was complaining about the guys in stardew and how all these farming Sims have better girls then guys. She paused and looked at me and said “babe…I think you might be a lesbian.” So yeah my wife had to tell me I was gay. I reflected and I realized she was right. So that is a fun thing to tell people)